出差了一天，嗯，还是比较累的。南京来回不好玩，好在回来是坐火车（去的时候是坐大巴）。 好了，开始正文。 Side note to Rosamond: You have used a very big word: utilitarian! I have to go to 金山糍粑 to find out the meaning. Your 糍汇量 beat me. But I think that is not the right word in this case. To describe the first kind of love, I would choose “mental”; so to describe [...]